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2014 KAT-Walk & Karo-5K

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It was chilly for September, even for Maine, and the winds weren’t exactly relaxing but the annual KAT-Walk & Karo-5K held last Saturday was a terrific success! At one point I said the words “My heart is full” to myself after looking out at the many, many people filtering in throughout the brisk morning.

Team Nolan over 160 strong!Over 600 people attended the walk and run this year. We’ve never had that many. Granted there was a busload of school kids and we certainly can’t expect, or rely, on those exact people to attend the following years, but it was great to have that kind of show of support.

To me it never really is about the money raised, but the physical show of support seen on the day of the event. You can’t get that warm fuzzy feeling from a check. You can’t share a hug with a credit card charge. And you can’t feel the sense of accomplishment after finishing the run or walk from a $10 dollar bill.

That being said, we DID raise over $30,000 this year! We are also very proud that the “Maine’s KAT-Walk & Karo-5K Chair of Research” was one of eleven research grants totaling $230,000 awarded at The 8th Annual Brain Aneurysm Foundation Research Grant Awards Symposium. The event was held on Thursday, September 11, 2014, in Miami, Florida.

Our 2014 Chair of Research was awarded to Koji Hosaka, PhD, Dept. Neurosurgery, University of Florida. He is working on identifying proteins that can be coated to the miniature coils used in the repair of Brain Aneurysms. It is anticipated that these compounds will be effective to promote healing and shorten recovery times and complications.

Now, back to those warm, fuzzy feelings. Every year, I’m always struck by the people who show up to support someone who has lost someone or to support another survivor. In fact, at our monthly support group, instead of saying “caregiver”, we voluntarily started calling them “supporters”, which I like much better. There are also many people who attend from out of state.

Two such supporters and fellow brain aneurysm survivors, I had met previously and was honored they came to our event. One was from Florida, via Pennsylvania and the other from New Hampshire.

It was nice to actually walk with someone this time! Lori is a walking miracle surviving multiple brain surgeries & a stroke. With the help of her service dog Tober and her husband Ralph, we were a great walking team and they kept me on stride for probably my best time ever. Yes, I was sore and tired afterwards, but I needed to keep up.

Julie has come to our walk in the past and was a huge help at the brain aneurysm awareness tent getting names and greeting other survivors. Julie has had several struggles with other medical issues including breast cancer and she remains an upbeat proponent of being your own advocate for better medical care. We had the same doctor coil our ruptured brain aneurysm in 2006 about 3 or 4 months apart in Portland, ME.

The three amigos had a grand time afterwards giggling like little girls and celebrated the day with a drink. I enjoyed their company tremendously and was thrilled they joined us and me. Again…it’s that show of support that can mean so much to so many.

The endless hours of hard work put in by so many volunteers is all worth it when we see the outpouring of support to raise awareness for brain aneurysms.. My husband, Dave, had a “To-Do” check list that had over 800 items to be completed. I know his niece Kim would be so proud of the work he is doing and would be embarrassed that an event was named after her. I also KNOW she’d flash that fabulous smile seeing the efforts put forth, and know she’s right there beside us the entire way trying to raise awareness about the silent killer that took her from us.

I believe this event would not be as organized, or look as good (flags, tents, signs, etc) without Dave putting in endless hours of contacting survivors, supporters, and sponsors. I hope people who attend realize the personal contact Dave, and other volunteers, have made to make those who attend the event feel welcomed and comforted. I seriously doubt other walks/runs have that kind of personal communication from an organizer. Not only is Dave MY biggest supporter, but he’s trying to support everyone else touched by brain aneurysms. He knows…he’s been effected in multiple ways by them and I love him for his passion and endless drive to make sure the events go off without a hitch (even checking the tides!) and it looks amazing. We actually don’t see much of each other during the event. He and I have to catch up on the day on the long drive home afterwards with the trailer loaded up with the “circus”.

I also realize the event was overwhelming for me this year. I was extremely tired after the walk. I AM just 8 months out from open brain surgery, and there was a LOT of mental and visual stimulation all day. Speaking to many people, walking, taking pictures, unpacking boxes, re-packing boxes, not much food, and being overly tired from work. It’s a shame no one FROM work was there to see the event we have worked so hard to produce and give me some support. But, I’m blessed to be included with the over 20 survivors who attended the event with THEIR supporters. I had my sister Dori and Kim on my mind and walking for them and myself was a privilege. Good for me! 🙂 It was nice to cross the finish line with someone who knew I had actually crossed the finish line and we gave each other a high five and a hug.

Trailer and car Unloaded at seaside
The trailer & car all packed up and ready to go! Trailer unloaded at Back Cove
Tents set up Dave addressing the crowd
It all turns into this! Dave addressing the crowd at start of race.
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Great shot of crowd gathered at start/finish line Lori and I just crossed the finish line
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Julie, Lori, Tober, and myself The Wall of Honor
My sister's sneaker My sneaker on the honor board
My sister’s sneaker on the wall of honor My own sneaker on the honor board

 

Stop and Visit

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Each year of our KAT-Walk and Karo-5K I have been at the tent representing the Maine Brain Aneurysm Awareness committee, only leaving it to help other volunteers if needed or if I am participating in the walk itself. Before, during, and after the event, we try to provide people with support, information, and education about brain aneurysms.

SURVIVORS:
If you’re a survivor, like I am, we encourage you to make yourself known at the event by stopping by our tent to say “hello” and to sign in. Each year we’re very encouraged to meet new survivors as well as those who survived an aneurysm many years ago and choose our event to celebrate the fact they survived. We are also very aware some survivors don’t want to draw attention to themselves or make a ‘big deal” out of it, but it IS a big deal. Brain aneurysms kill too many and if you survived a rupture or were lucky enough to have your aneurysm treated before it ruptures, then you’re very worthy of attention at our event.

Please stop by, say “hello”, and sign in. Not only is it a wonderful feeling to know you’re not alone, but seeing, and getting to know another survivor can give newly diagnosed or treated survivors a tremendous amount of encouragement and comfort.

NEWLY DIAGNOSED
As our Brain Aneurysm Support group continues to draw new members, we’re also very aware there may be patients who have been newly diagnosed with a brain aneurysm. Hearing those words can be extremely frightening, especially if one has no idea what an aneurysm is. It’s only AFTER you’ve been diagnosed and seen at the doctor’s office that the questions seem to present themselves.

At our Brain Aneurysm Awareness tent we can provide you with informational booklets and brochures to help you on your journey. The types of brain aneurysms, different treatments, and what to expect after treatments are all part of the learning process when you begin your brain aneurysm journey.

Also at the tent you’ll meet other survivors who can help answer some of your non-medical questions and hopefully ease some of your fears.

THE WALL OF HONOR
Two years ago we started the Wall of Honor where families can place the name of a loved one who has been lost to an aneurysm or the name of a survivor.

If we are aware a survivor is registered for the walk or run, we try to have their name pre-printed and placed on the wall prior to the event, but each year we meet new survivors and we welcome you to visit the tent, write your name on one of the colorful sneaker stickers, and place your name on the board. You survived…you deserve a place of honor.

Wall of Honor

If you’ve been unfortunate to have lost a loved one or friend to a ruptured brain aneurysm, we also welcome and encourage you to remember them with a place on our wall. As with the survivors, if we know family members of one who was lost are registered for the walk or run, we try to honor their memory with a pre-printed sneaker sticker on the board, but if you’re new to the walk and want to honor your lost loved one, please stop by the tent, write their name on a sneaker sticker and proudly place it on the wall to honor their memory.

We try to keep it to one sneaker per survivor or loved one. If the name you’re looking for is already ON the board, we have seen other family members and friends taking pictures with the sneaker with their name on it. The Wall of Honor has become an emotional place for some and a proud place for others. A true brain aneurysm community develops on the day of the event and it gives one hope, comfort, and encouragement.

 

SUPPORT COMMUNITY
Next to our Brain Aneurysm Awareness tent we will have a tent set up for the Maine Brain Aneurysm Support Group.  For those who are unable to participate in the events, we welcome you to rest here and enjoy the festivities with other survivors and family members.

 

Chatty Cathy

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We had another brain aneurysm support group meeting in Portland. The turnout was not as good as in previous months and we’re sure it’s because of the beautiful weather we were having. There were only two of us for quite some time, then we learned the speaker had to cancel due to a death in the family. Now what?

Finally a few more people showed up and a decision to simply have an open forum of discussion was agreed upon. There were 21 at last month’s meeting and this month was about half that at 11. There were four survivors and 3 care givers, two mental health care givers, Dave’s sister Nancy, our own medical person from the hospital and a reporter. I knew there was a possibility the reporter would be there to write a story, so we were very pleased when a few more people showed up.

As it turns out, it was probably one of the best group sessions the reporter could have attended because there WASN’T a speaker. We spoke freely, asked questions of one another and shared frustrations, fears, and our collective “brain bling” because the four survivors in the group were craniotomy & clipping recipients. It was a wonderful hour and 15 minutes of sharing and in some cases educational for a few.

I seemed to think I was overly talkative when I thought about it afterwards. I think because the reporter WAS there, I wanted to make sure some of the efforts of our group and our events were brought to attention as well as some of my own personal experience. And perhaps I did a bit too much. Probably the reason the reporter never spoke to me personally about my experience…I blabbed about it the whole meeting. LOL I was the only one she didn’t seem to speak with afterwards. I guess I gave her enough info…and then some, or my story just wasn’t that intriguing.

It was nice to speak up and out. I don’t get the opportunity very much, other than in this blog, and I never know who is, and isn’t reading my blog because they rarely make themselves known to me. I enjoyed knowing I could speak freely and have people understand some of what I was talking about. I hope I didn’t do too much or interrupt. Listening is the most important thing you can do at a support group meeting. It’s why we’re there…to lend support and allow people to speak. I just spoke…and spoke…and spoke. So I apologize if I ran over anyone. Chatty Cathy can be powerful!

Support Group

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Yesterday was a major outing for me and a major event for the state of Maine and anyone who has been effected by brain aneurysms.

Maine Brain Aneurysm Support GroupThe first meeting of the Maine Brain Aneurysm Support Group was held in Portland and by all accounts it was a great success. The Brain Aneurysm Foundation sent two of their most notable representatives to join us and helped us get the ball rolling. The medical community was also highly represented, which was most important.

We have been trying to get a support group going for years and it took getting the Brain Aneurysm Foundation directly involved, to get the local medical community involved…which was what we needed and had failed to do successfully in the past.

When I left the hospital after my brain aneurysm ruptured in 2006, I was given nothing but a book on traumatic brain injury, not an aneurysm, and sent on my merry way. If I hadn’t found an online community of other brain aneurysm survivors, I would have floundered and felt very alone. My doctor at the time had nothing in his office on what to expect while recovery from a rupture nor any info to assist newly diagnosed patients.

That is our goal with this support group: to assist those recovering, to comfort those who have lost, and to educate those who are newly diagnosed. And now, with the local medical community involved, our mere existence will be generated amongst medical newsletters and calendars and we hope to help many more people…and perhaps save lives through our Brain Aneurysm Awareness events.

It was wonderful to see new faces and hear their stories. Some more challenging than others and it makes us aware we’ll need to address many different topics throughout the months as each story is different. The brain aneurysm is what binds us and simply knowing we’re not alone in our struggles is what this group is all about. There IS a community of people effected by brain aneurysms throughout the state of Maine.

I was exhausted afterwards, but it was worth it. I wouldn’t have missed the first meeting unless I had to, because we’ve worked so hard to get to this point. For some reason the side of my face near my incision around my jaw and ear has been swollen the last couple of days and remained so last night, so I put ice on it for a time, then promptly fell completely asleep for the entire night. I needed that full-night’s sleep that’s for sure.