11-Month Update

I realized I haven’t given much of an update on how my brain aneurysm is doing for many months. My 2nd aneurysm was clipped 11 months ago.

Physically, the hair has all grown back and didn’t ALL come back in gray, but certainly one streak snuck it’s way through. A few blonde highlights helped cover that up temporarily.

The incision where the skin was pulled back, then replaced and sown on with 53 stitches is almost non-existent. I say “almost” because there are still some dry, itchy spots directly along the incision cut that’ll flare up occasionally.

I do still have quite a good chunk of my scalp that doesn’t have much feeling and some nights it’s uncomfortable to lay on the left side of my face and head still. I haven’t been able to determine what triggers that uncomfortable feeling yet. But I certainly feel it and know that the brain bling, the bone plate and screws are there and making their presence known.

A good indentation has now become more pronounced where the piece of skull was removed the replaced, however. I can cover it up with my bangs for the most part, but I know it’s there and I’m a tad self-conscious about it. I don’t know why I feel that way….I should be proud of my battle scars and brain bling.

I believe I’m supposed to have a follow-up angiogram in January and I’m looking forward to finally seeing the images of the clip and it’s location. And hopefully everything will look good with the clip as well as the other, older, clip-filled aneurysm and they don’t locate any others.

I’m so ready to kick the year 2014 in the arse and kiss it goodbye.

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Still looks better than it did 11 months ago below

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Post-surgery. Yikes!

The day after craniotomy & brain aneurysm clipping

The 9-Month Update

It has been awhile since I gave an update on my noggin. I’ve been very busy, very tired, and very tired. Now, none of that is highly unusual for this time of year. It is catalog time which usually means it’s very busy and I’m very tired…It just usually isn’t on top of brain surgery 9 months prior.

I’ve been a very bad patient too. I haven’t eaten well. I don’t exercise and I’m not giving myself enough breaks from the computer during the day. It’s no wonder I’m tired, cranky and head-achey. It’s the nature of the beast this time of year, but there are some new aches and pains around my head and skull that annoy.

My scalp is still numb over a large chunk of my skull. I’ve started to get used to it I guess. It’s still odd, but isn’t anything painful, so that’s good. I do get odd pains in and around the incision area and where the skin would have been pealed back from the skull. Not sure what triggers it or how to make it feel better. Usually resting does it…and yes, I haven’t done enough of that either. Why do I do it? Life is too short….I guess I’m just one of those human beings who feels responsible for my job. I have a major deadline to meet and I haven’t missed it once in the last 13 years. Well, I can’t remember if they got the files to the printer on time the year my other brain aneurysm ruptured, but I wasn’t exactly “aware” at that time.

Chocolate is my friend this time of year. It’s what “sustains” us! LOL The extreme comfort food…any time of the day.

Adding to the stress of uneasiness about my frame of mind and stamina this time of year is that my mother was in the hospital back in NY and is now in a rehab center. I haven’t seen her at all. I don’t dare take any time off this time of year. I hope to get to NY as soon as I can after the catalog has been printed and I can settle back into a normal routine at work. I feel horrible not being there for her and my niece, who is handling everything for mom by herself. Thankfully, Mom appears to be doing okay and is in good spirits which helps. She’s a tough old bird at 88 and seems to be enjoying some of the new people she has met.

Dave, as usual, has had to deal with my many moods, mood swings, and horrible meals this time of year. Usually the months of September (because of the Maine Brain Aneurysm Walk/Run) and October (catalog) are filled with junk food and fatigue. Then Dave just broke two ribs last weekend, so he’s not doing well himself! We’re a great pair. I’m calling him “short ribs”. 🙂 Thank God I have such a wonderful husband who allows me to be ticked off, vent, and generally will leave me alone when I need to be during this time. He never complains. How DID I get so lucky?

Last year at this time I was keeping the fact I was going to have a craniotomy the next January a secret from my co-workers until the catalog was completed. All that time I was able to “plan” my schedule around my surgery and make sure I had things in order and had people lined up to assist while I was out. I suppose that’s one of the GOOD things about knowing you’ll have surgery on a brain aneurysm instead of a sudden, emergency situation: you can plan! And I’m also urging people to be scanned and go to the Dr. if they’re experiencing any of the symptoms of a brain aneurysm.

My niece was scanned this summer and by the grace of God, everything looked fine. Even if they had found something, I know from personal experience, it’s not a death sentence. There ARE treatments out there and there ARE things that can be done to save a life. I’m LIVING proof of that! Just taking it one day at a time and “playing it by ear” as my family says.

8 Years And Counting

20141004-230625.jpgI say it every year around this time but Happy Annie-versary to me! 8 years ago today I suffered a ruptured brain aneurysm at home. I believe I was guided by God’s hand to go into the ER when I did. I KNEW it was something I had never experienced before and wanted to get it checked out because it scared me. I was only vaguely aware of the term aneurysm because a cousin had one coiled a few years earlier. I had no idea just how serious it was for her and just how my life, and my family’s life, would be changed.

No, I wasn’t sent to Boston for my surgery. My particular aneurysm was a good candidate for the relatively new procedure called coiling. What I know NOW, but didn’t know then, is that the rather large, 1/2″ diameter brain aneurysm is actually sitting on my optic nerve and the head of neurology was nervous about doing the more invasive procedure of a craniotomy and clipping (which I just went through with my un-ruptured aneurysm). Thankfully the staff right here in Maine at Maine Medical Center were more than capable of handling that procedure and are now in 2014 even MORE prepared to handle all of the new treatments available.

16 coils and four additional coils, a stent, a craniotomy, and now a metal clip, and here I still am. It was a frustrating recovery in 2006 and I am now meeting, and hopefully assisting, recent survivors at our brain aneurysm support group. We’re all lucky. We survived.

I’ve given up asking “why did I survive” and why didn’t Dave’s niece Kim or my sister Dori survive their ruptures. There is no answer. God had other plans I guess.

I mentioned to my mother earlier in the week that I had finished the first round of layouts for the ENTIRE catalog for next year’s book. Ironically, 8 years ago, I remembered celebrating that milestone and one or two days later, the brain aneurysm ruptured. I’m still working just as hard, still stressing just as much, but a little bit more tired this year because my UN-ruptured brain aneurysm was clipped in January. One of the side effects from THAT surgery is when I’m overly tired, my left eye lid gets droopy and even though it doesn’t look it, I feel like my brain and skull are swollen when I’ve worked too hard. Yes, I still push myself. It’s my job, it’s my responsibility. I do have limits though….you’d think I would have learned that 8 years ago. LOL

I still don’t eat as well as I should and I don’t get enough exercise. Perhaps that part of my brain that activates motivation has changed. Who knows, but I’m here. No special celebration today, just making home made chili in the crockpot, working on the catalog (yes, on the weekend!) and hanging out with my Maine Man and my kitty cats. That’s more than I was doing eight years ago in ICU.

If I’m able to help any other survivors and help spread the word about the symptoms and treatments of these silent killers, then I’m hopefully turning something bad into a more positive thing. There are days I don’t want to talk about brain aneurysms. There are days I don’t want to think about them, but I can’t get away from them. That’s the sad truth. So, I’m trying to make the best of it and try to help others LIVE in whatever way they’re able to. They are a part of my everyday living.

For those of you still struggling, you’re not alone and things will get better with time. Just treat yourself right, enjoy life, and celebrate the people around you. You just never know.

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Photo taken on my first walk outside after craniotomy in January this year.

2014 KAT-Walk & Karo-5K

It was chilly for September, even for Maine, and the winds weren’t exactly relaxing but the annual KAT-Walk & Karo-5K held last Saturday was a terrific success! At one point I said the words “My heart is full” to myself after looking out at the many, many people filtering in throughout the brisk morning.

Team Nolan over 160 strong!Over 600 people attended the walk and run this year. We’ve never had that many. Granted there was a busload of school kids and we certainly can’t expect, or rely, on those exact people to attend the following years, but it was great to have that kind of show of support.

To me it never really is about the money raised, but the physical show of support seen on the day of the event. You can’t get that warm fuzzy feeling from a check. You can’t share a hug with a credit card charge. And you can’t feel the sense of accomplishment after finishing the run or walk from a $10 dollar bill.

That being said, we DID raise over $30,000 this year! We are also very proud that the “Maine’s KAT-Walk & Karo-5K Chair of Research” was one of eleven research grants totaling $230,000 awarded at The 8th Annual Brain Aneurysm Foundation Research Grant Awards Symposium. The event was held on Thursday, September 11, 2014, in Miami, Florida.

Our 2014 Chair of Research was awarded to Koji Hosaka, PhD, Dept. Neurosurgery, University of Florida. He is working on identifying proteins that can be coated to the miniature coils used in the repair of Brain Aneurysms. It is anticipated that these compounds will be effective to promote healing and shorten recovery times and complications.

Now, back to those warm, fuzzy feelings. Every year, I’m always struck by the people who show up to support someone who has lost someone or to support another survivor. In fact, at our monthly support group, instead of saying “caregiver”, we voluntarily started calling them “supporters”, which I like much better. There are also many people who attend from out of state.

Two such supporters and fellow brain aneurysm survivors, I had met previously and was honored they came to our event. One was from Florida, via Pennsylvania and the other from New Hampshire.

It was nice to actually walk with someone this time! Lori is a walking miracle surviving multiple brain surgeries & a stroke. With the help of her service dog Tober and her husband Ralph, we were a great walking team and they kept me on stride for probably my best time ever. Yes, I was sore and tired afterwards, but I needed to keep up.

Julie has come to our walk in the past and was a huge help at the brain aneurysm awareness tent getting names and greeting other survivors. Julie has had several struggles with other medical issues including breast cancer and she remains an upbeat proponent of being your own advocate for better medical care. We had the same doctor coil our ruptured brain aneurysm in 2006 about 3 or 4 months apart in Portland, ME.

The three amigos had a grand time afterwards giggling like little girls and celebrated the day with a drink. I enjoyed their company tremendously and was thrilled they joined us and me. Again…it’s that show of support that can mean so much to so many.

The endless hours of hard work put in by so many volunteers is all worth it when we see the outpouring of support to raise awareness for brain aneurysms.. My husband, Dave, had a “To-Do” check list that had over 800 items to be completed. I know his niece Kim would be so proud of the work he is doing and would be embarrassed that an event was named after her. I also KNOW she’d flash that fabulous smile seeing the efforts put forth, and know she’s right there beside us the entire way trying to raise awareness about the silent killer that took her from us.

I believe this event would not be as organized, or look as good (flags, tents, signs, etc) without Dave putting in endless hours of contacting survivors, supporters, and sponsors. I hope people who attend realize the personal contact Dave, and other volunteers, have made to make those who attend the event feel welcomed and comforted. I seriously doubt other walks/runs have that kind of personal communication from an organizer. Not only is Dave MY biggest supporter, but he’s trying to support everyone else touched by brain aneurysms. He knows…he’s been effected in multiple ways by them and I love him for his passion and endless drive to make sure the events go off without a hitch (even checking the tides!) and it looks amazing. We actually don’t see much of each other during the event. He and I have to catch up on the day on the long drive home afterwards with the trailer loaded up with the “circus”.

I also realize the event was overwhelming for me this year. I was extremely tired after the walk. I AM just 8 months out from open brain surgery, and there was a LOT of mental and visual stimulation all day. Speaking to many people, walking, taking pictures, unpacking boxes, re-packing boxes, not much food, and being overly tired from work. It’s a shame no one FROM work was there to see the event we have worked so hard to produce and give me some support. But, I’m blessed to be included with the over 20 survivors who attended the event with THEIR supporters. I had my sister Dori and Kim on my mind and walking for them and myself was a privilege. Good for me! 🙂 It was nice to cross the finish line with someone who knew I had actually crossed the finish line and we gave each other a high five and a hug.

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The trailer & car all packed up and ready to go! Trailer unloaded at Back Cove
Tents set up Dave addressing the crowd
It all turns into this! Dave addressing the crowd at start of race.
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Great shot of crowd gathered at start/finish line Lori and I just crossed the finish line
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Julie, Lori, Tober, and myself The Wall of Honor
My sister's sneaker My sneaker on the honor board
My sister’s sneaker on the wall of honor My own sneaker on the honor board